SHEPHERDS DEL SOL

 

Petra Shepherd joined Travel Channel for its launch back in 1994. She looks after our research and works on all original productions. Petra's one of the most recognisable faces in the travel industry and when she's not on the canapé circuit promoting the channel, she spends every free moment travelling. She's visited over 70 countries and prefers back packing to 5 * luxury, unless of course it's in the name of research!

This month she shares with us her recent experiences of planning a holiday for three generations of the Shepherd family.

For most people spending a couple of days with the family over Christmas is just about bearable but who in their right mind would want to go away on holiday with the whole kit and caboodle under the same roof?! The problem I had was a family get-together was called for and inevitably everyone had an idea of what that should entail; not so much a list of "requests", more like "demands". There were eleven of us. The Shepherd and Maxwell families consisting of two parents over 70, a married sister with three children under 10, the "rock 'n' roll" sister with boyfriend-in-tow, and a sister over from Australia.

 

My first problem was to find a villa that could sleep so many (not an easy task), while our other "requirements" included a downstairs bedroom (Father can't do stairs), a large pool and garden, and a housekeeper-cum-cook. We didn't want any of the inevitable arguments over cooking and clearing up. When it comes to friends, you tend to be polite and get on with it. Families on the other hand call "a spade a spade" and woe betide anyone who hasn't done their "turn" or pulled their weight. We may all be over 30 but when it comes to who hasn't done the washing up, it's amazing how quickly we resort to behaving like teenagers. Not what you need on holiday.

We also wanted peace and quiet but didn't want to be totally out in the Styx. The boys were keen to play golf, we girls wanted to ride, and none of us wanted to travel too far to find somehwere to eat. Oh, and we were looking for somewhere that little bit special, no plastic tables and chairs, and mismatched furniture. We were all tied into travel over the October half term and our goal was somewhere within easy flying distance of London but still warm and sunny. The latter was a key consideration.

Other problems involved trying to please dramatically different tastes as well as day-to-day logistics. We'd be hiring two cars but who should be the named drivers? Who'd agree to have his or her fun curtailed on evenings out when everybody else was drinking? And most importantly, where should we start looking? Some were fans of France, others of Italy and some of Spain. The decision however was taken out of our hands somewhat.

Travel Channel expert and travel journalist Jill Crawshaw has often warned of that cloud that comes over the Mediterranean mid October and normally always strikes during the half term week. Avoiding this cloud and guaranteeing the sunshine was my number one priority, and as the unfortunate sibling who'd been landed with organising this family affair, I put my foot down and chose the Costa Del Sol. Over 300 days of sunshine a year the tourist board claims. I've lost count of the number of places around the world that claim similar records. Is it just me who always seems to visit on one of the 65 no sunshine days? Anyway, I reckoned Spain's Andalucia would have the best weather and after much debate an agreement was finally made on the Casa Del Rio villa near Benahavis on the Costa Del Sol.

 

"Our most sought after house in Spain in exquisite surroundings. For those wanting the best, Casa Del Rio is the ultimate answer and a cook completes the picture to ensure an effortless stay". Let me say that an effortless stay doesn't come cheap but when it comes to villa holidays tour operator CV Travel is one of the best. Well, fingers crossed!

When booking a villa holiday for a large number of people, always make sure the pool is a decent size. I've stayed at villas in the past where by the time you, the children, and the obligatory inflatables are all in the pool, it's standing room only.

Check the measurements in the brochure, and if they're not available, ask. Our heated pool was 12 m x 7 m, so a good size. Also, ask how sunny the villa is.

Again, we went during the October half term and if there was one fault with Casa

Del Rio it was access to sunlight. Although the villa was idyllically situated in a valley, the sun only materialised over the top of the mountains around 11 am. Our three youngsters were up hours before then but the pool just wasn't warm enough.

 

This could be a good time for exploring. Benahavis, the nearest village, is in an attractive setting just north of Marbella. It's 500 metres above sea level, 7 kilometres inland from the Guadalmina Golf Course through the Rio Guadalmina gorge. Nearby, there's Puerto Banus, just a short distance to the west of Marbella. This is the playground of the rich and famous, where the international jet set comes to shop, socialise and party. It's a tiny place, backed by expensive apartments, boutiques, restaurants and nightclubs. Our lot however preferred to head inland to Ronda.

 

The old town of Ronda is one of Andalucia's most spectacular, famous for its breathtaking scenery, its fine Arab baths and palaces, and the oldest bullring in Spain. Ronda features high on the must-see list of many visitors to this part of Spain. Old and new Ronda stand either side of the spectacular 100m deep El Tajo gorge, just an hour inland from the Costa Del Sol but a world away from the coastal hustle. The gorge is spanned by an impressive arched bridge. Local legend has it that God, fed-up with the constant squabbling of the people of Ronda (he had obviously yet to create the Shepherd family!) sent a huge bolt of lightning down to earth and split the city in two with the women in one half and the men in the other. This arrangement was so unpopular they built the bridge to reunite the community. From the Casa Del Rio, Ronda was the perfect half-day trip.

 

Other recommended jaunts from the villa included Gaucin 66km away, another spectacular mountain village with sweeping views to Gibraltar and the Rif mountains in North Africa, and Casares 48 km away. The latter is a steep hillside village below the well-preserved remains of a Muslim

Castle. It also has wonderful views, and the Sierra Crestellina to the northwest offer good walking opportunities.

Surprisingly, Benahavis has a staggering 25 + restaurants. It's called the dining room of the Costa Del Sol, with the highest concentration of high-class restaurants, and celebrates this fact on the road signs that guide you there - Benahavis, the "gastronomic corner of Andalucia". Roasted meats are one of the main local specialities so be prepared for the likes of suckling pig, spring lamb, steak and duck. Our favourite eating spot was the restaurant at the Hotel Amanhavis, an elegant, rustic hotel and restaurant in the centre of the village. If you plan to go for lunch, then breakfast lightly. Foie Gras is the speciality of the house, which they serve with a small glass of sweet wine. I also recommend the handcrafted frozen mug of cava champagne with passionfruit essence, and the Amanhavis giant tiger prawns with baked spinach and almonds. The two course menu is 34.50€ while three courses cost 37.50€.

One of the most successful aspects of our trip was how well we all got on, and that was thanks to our location. Casa Del Rio and the surrounding area catered to all our different interests, and was large enough to give us all a bit of space as well. The golfers in the group headed off for rounds at nearby Atalaya Park and the swish Marbella Club Hotel Golf Resort. Although the hotel (one of the Leading Hotels of the World) is located in Marbella, the golf course is just out of town, a stone's throw from the villa. It's also where the girls spent a morning horse riding. This was perhaps the only disappointment as much of the local landscape had been burnt away in a recent fire.

The villa itself was a perfect holiday base. We were quite excited to discover that the neighbouring property (strictly out of bounds) was owned by the

Goldsmith family and there was a chance of spotting Hugh and Jemima. The children as children the world over of course, were happiest in the pool or just exploring the garden and river which gives the house its name. Inside, the Casa was big and furnished tastefully in a modern variation on the rustic theme. The bathrooms were massive whilst outdoors there were several terraces, including a Moroccan style lounger for those who just wanted to relax and enjoy the seclusion and lovely views.

So after all the planning it seems a multi-generational holiday for the Shepherds is a possibility. At least, I didn't come home desperately needing to book another holiday toute seul. We're all still talking and plan on booking another villa holiday this year. Let's hope we get it right a second time round.


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August 2005